Essential Elements
A comprehensive parenting communication plan addresses all aspects of co-parent interaction.
- Preferred communication methods
- Response time expectations
- Emergency contact procedures
- Decision-making protocols
- Information sharing requirements
- Dispute resolution process
Communication Methods
| Method | Best For | Considerations |
|---|---|---|
| Co-parenting apps | High-conflict situations | Creates documentation, reduces emotion |
| Non-urgent matters | Creates written record | |
| Text | Quick logistics | Keep brief and business-like |
| Phone | Urgent matters, complex discussions | Follow up in writing |
Information Sharing Protocols
- Medical: Share health updates, doctor appointments, medications
- Education: Report cards, teacher conferences, school events
- Activities: Sports schedules, practices, performances
- Social: Birthday parties, playdates, major events
- Emergencies: Immediate notification, hospital visits
High-Conflict Communication
When direct communication is difficult, structured approaches help.
- Use co-parenting apps exclusively (OurFamilyWizard)
- Limit communication to child-related topics only
- Set specific times for non-emergency communication
- Use BIFF method (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm)
- Consider a parenting coordinator for disputes
Frequently Asked Questions
A parenting communication plan should include: preferred communication methods (email, app, text), response time expectations, information sharing requirements (school, medical, activities), emergency contact protocols, decision-making processes, and dispute resolution procedures.
Communication frequency depends on your situation. Most co-parents communicate weekly about logistics, immediately for emergencies, and as needed for major decisions. High-conflict situations may benefit from limited, structured communication on set schedules.
Yes, Alberta courts can order specific communication methods as part of parenting orders. Courts may require use of co-parenting apps like OurFamilyWizard, mandate written communication only, or establish specific protocols for information sharing.